I don't care what anyone says, there is a big difference between affectionate attention and over-the-top, unnecessary smothering. Sure, we like. Overly affectionate, how? Some people are just more touchy-feely than others. Now if this is your first or second time hanging out with him, and. Should you be worried about your overly affectionate toddler? For example, when they’re angry, they might bite or hit; when they’re feeling loving, they kiss, cuddle and hug. Toddlers see their mom and dad or other adults expressing their feelings by kissing and touching each.