Wow! This seriously depends from people to people. My husband and I dated for almost four years. Three years of marriage and we are still. My girlfriend and I are going to be at our 4 month relationship this Wednsday I' m just not sure if I should give it to her on our 4 month or wait til. give your girlfriend a promise ring? I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 5 months now and we get along so well it's incredible. We are so c. Do you feel like you shjould be giving her one? Well i guess you are. A promise ring is a symbol of commitment and is often seen as a pre- engagement ring. If you are giving a promise ring as a sign of friendship, or to someone you've only recently . Would it be appropriate to give my girlfriend a promise ring if my divorce is not finalized? Do you have to kneel when giving a promise ring?. I'm wondering when is it acceptable to give your girlfriend a promise ring? a year of being with one another? and what finger should she wear it on? I got my promise ring from jamietwilson.com. Includes: • Ideas of how to give a girl a promise ring • What to say when on one knee, and you should be prepared to explain exactly what the ring symbolizes.